Some things learned along the way..

We have all seen many lists of Life Lessons. Seems that I have had to learn or re-learn many of the same ones over and over again. Over the years I jotted down some important ones that I've either read, thought of myself, or have heard from some wise friend trying to guide me along the path. Today, I feel like revisiting some of those thoughts.

* I cannot make someone love me. All I can do is try to become someone who can be loved.

* No matter how much I care, some people just don't or aren't capable of caring back.

* My background and childhood might have influenced who I am, but only I am responsible for who I've become.

* I either control my attitude or it will certainly control me.

* Although I am slow to anger, there are times when I should be angry. But, I have no right or desire to be cruel with that anger.

* While birthdays add another year, life experiences and what is done with them is the real key to maturity.

* No question about it---the people I love have, and will hurt me. Sometimes the hurt will be intentional. Most times it will be unintentional. Whatever the reasons, I must forgive them because I hope they will find it in their heart to forgive me when I do the same.

* No matter how many times my heart has been broken, the world does not stop.

* Although my desire is to protect my family and friends, they will get hurt and I will hurt with them.

* Forgiveness from others often comes easier than the forgiveness we fight to give ourselves.

* Only children often get a bad rap.

* Families of choice are one of my greatest blessings.

* Sweet tea really is better than unsweetened.

* Chocolate in any shape or form makes me love life to the fullest.

* Just when you think you have a handle on someone, they change on you.

That's enough for today. I hope that your day is one filled with peace and much joy.